“By loving them for more than their abilities we show our children that they are much more than the sum of their accomplishments.”- Eileen Kennedy-Moore
Illumination understands how important is your child's future to you, and we know that you will do whatever is in your power to help your child to get the best. The intention of this blog is to assist you to understand the aspects of parenting that most parents are not consciously aware of.
The parent-child relationship is one of the special bonds that a human being shares and experiences in his/her lifetime, as it nurtures the individual emotionally, physically, socially, and in other aspects of life. So, it becomes very important for you as a parent to be aware of all the transactions happening between you and your child not only verbally but non verbally as well.
But how the nature of the bond makes a difference?
Many studies have reported that your attachment and relationship with your child indicates how the child is going to nurture in the coming times. We as a parent need to understand that a child's early developmental stages of life are very crucial and it becomes very important how we as a parent help them understand and take care of their emotions, understanding them and giving them the right values at an early age. Till the time your kids are teenagers, they are well-groomed with principles and ready to take independent decisions. Parents and children relationship is very sensitive and important too. So, we have listed some important tips for you to enhance your existing relationship with your child, please read them carefully and try to implement them as effectively as you can.
Keep an open mind and broader perspectives
Listen to your child’s opinions and choices
Listen with patience and do not misguide if not aware of particular things
Observe emotional hints and disappointments if any
Monitor his/her interest and progress in the chosen career
Understand the reason behind willingness or disapproval of going to colleges
Observe if they choose to mingle with friends of the same career or avoid doing so
Don’t enforce your expectations on them
Understand their strengths and weaknesses
Explore the resources related to their chosen career
Check for the influence of peers or relatives in their decision making
Motivate the child in achieving their goals
Seek professional help whenever required
Finally, we wish you well for your family's health and progress and hope your child achieves what he/she aspires.
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